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  • May Days

    It’s a rainy day today, and the start of a week of rainy weather, but until today the weather has been beautiful, sunny and warm. We’ve been getting in a lot of cycling, including rides to the library (and ice cream store) with Iris in our new bike, and a few towpath rides to Easton. The trees have been enjoying the weather too, they’re in full bloom and the pollen is off the charts, but overall I’ll take it.

    We managed to see a lot of wildlife on our towpath rides this week, tons of turtles as well as deer, a great blue heron and a bald eagle. The biggest excitement though was just outside our door yesterday, and we missed it…

    A Bear In Bethlehem!

    That’s the current excitement — a young bear was in our neighborhood yesterday, captured on various Ring cameras and making the local news (in the video you can see our friend’s house, right up the block from us). It’s kind of weird, the bear seemed to be hanging near the local playground, where we’d also seen some ducks hanging out recently — maybe that little park is looking extra hospitable these days?

    With today’s rain we opted to take Iris swimming, and we’ve been playing indoors all day. Tonight is ukulele night at our place.


  • In Before The Storm

    It was a beautiful morning yesterday, but the forecast was for afternoon thunderstorms. I did a load of laundry and hung it out to dry, then took off for my usual towpath ride — I figured I could get back before the rain started, though by then the sky was starting to look ominous.

    Well I basically did a hot lap, got home in plenty of time to beat the storm, got my dry laundry in and… it didn’t rain until the middle of the night.

    Today is a rainy day. Anne is out doing some bike event (in the rain, she’s tougher than me) while I went over to the Easton Market, to brunch with Emmi and Iris.


  • Road Trip!

    I just got back from an overnight trip to Alexandria, Virginia to pick up a new bike. It’s a huge cargo bike that Jenny found online, like eight feet long and maybe 85 pounds, with a cargo box up front (the brand is Bakfiet, for those following along). Anne arranged to borrow Sarah’s pickup, and I drove down yesterday with John R to get it.

    It was not quite a buddy movie, no adventures or anything — we just drove down, dealt with Baltimore and DC traffic (nothing major), and met the owner at a parking lot near Mount Vernon. Owner Vince seemed to be a pretty nice guy, and told me about how he used to use the bike to transport his daughters around, before they got too big and started riding their own bikes. I assured him it was going to a good home, and would soon be transporting another little girl…

    A little bit of wresting (we also removed the bucket for transport) and we had the bike secured in the truck bed. We drove over to our hotel and checked in, and then took an Uber to a local brewpub called the Aslin Beer Company for dinner.

    Neither of us had ever heard of them, but apparently Aslin is a local powerhouse, with multiple brewpubs in the area and even one as far away as Pittsburgh. The place we went to was packed — it was Trivia Night — but we found the last two seats at the bar, and had a great meal washed down with some really good west coast IPA’s. (My meal was a pepperoni and hot honey pizza, which I was prepared to have my doubts about but it was amazing.) We had a good time, but we were tired and didn’t really last long, we just did what we had to and left.

    Back at the hotel, I discovered that my room was just close enough to the lobby that I could hear the horde of teenagers (some group on a bus tour) coming and going from the elevator to the pool. That died down by about 11:00, thankfully, and probably when the pool closed, and I slept fine from there out.

    Today was an easy return: I met John (along with a horde of hungry teenagers) in the breakfast area, and after breakfast we had an uneventful drive home. We arrived just after 1:00, just about 25 hours, with a round trip total of maybe 450 miles.

    And now we have this beauty!


  • Blasts From The Past, and Sad News

    Speaking of Sals and maps, this is what I wrote fifteen years ago. Also, this is what I wrote twenty years ago.

    RIP Debbie

    I got the sad news the other day that my cousin Debbie passed away late last week. (Her obituary is here.) Her brother Eddie called and told me; he was (understandably) pretty broken up about it. It’s a tough blow for my Mom too, she and Debbie had become close in recent years. We’ll be going to the wake on Wednesday.


  • Improved Wordle Cheating

    I use a script to help me with Wordle — creating the script, and watching it work (rather than the actual play itself), are what I like most about playing Wordle.

    My script works, in conjunction with a text file of the most common five-letter words, by counting the most common letters used in whatever subset of words are valid at any point in the game — part of the script runs the text file through a regular expression filter to get that valid word list — then rating the words by how many high-count letters they contain. This especially is a good tool early in the game, since it helps to either confirm or eliminate the most obvious letter choices right off the bat, but it has diminishing returns with later choices.

    I modified the script to similarly score multiple-letter combinations, but the results were mixed. Past a certain point, this approach really doesn’t do much, and adding letters didn’t change that. My average score hovered at basically just below four guesses per game…

    The “wordle bot” assistant has its own way to assess words, based on a “divide and conquer” approach: the results of each word selection basically split the potential words into several groups, where all the words in each group would have produced the same result if they were the answer. (I call the groups “buckets,” and the approach the “bucket method.”) The more buckets a word choice can split the potential words into, and the fewer words are in each bucket, the better that word is for zeroing in on the correct answer.

    I decided to try using this approach, writing a python script to do the work. It really was pretty easy, surprisingly so, and it worked really well so I added some sorting to it and incorporated it as an option into my original helper script.

    The results, again, have been mixed. I think my average score is now closer to 3 than 4, but I’ve also had a whole lot more fives (and some more twos) so the variance seems to have grown. My “skill” score went up, but my “luck” score dropped… Part of this (especially the “luck” part) is because I’m not selecting words as randomly, or weighting the odds like my old method did, so I now start with my go-to choice of “SLATE” (always, for luck), then use my original wordle-helper method to find the next word, and from there I use the new bucket method. Better, but still not great.

    It turns out, the new method is a bit more sensitive than the old one to unusable words in the word list. Wordle has a fairly large set of acceptable words (I think I saw somewhere that it was about 3000), but only a subset (say 2000?) can be winners, and none of them are plural (no ending in “S”), past tense verbs (mostly no ending in “ED”) and definitely no inappropriate words. There are may be other deal-breakers too, but that’s a pretty good set of exceptions. Meanwhile my potential word list, which comes in at over 5000 words, contains all of those and more.

    So I’ve been curating my list. I added some regular expression filters to avoid words ending in “S” or “ED,” and marked as many inappropriate words as I could find so they would not get considered. My results are now much better, though there are still a few words that my list considers common but the NY Times does not.

    Today’s score was a five, but I just had a long run of threes.

    About my choice of “SLATE”

    Even before I first wrote my wordle helper, I decided that “SLATE” was the best opening word, since it had what I thought were the most common letters, and the best combinations, to start the game. I’ve been using it ever since, and at some point I felt vindicated when the wordle-bot started using it as its own best starting word. Everyone else started using it too, but then the bot began to start with “PLATE” and my word became far less popular…

    Well, I was playing with my new script, running it for a starting word (that is, with no restrictions except plurals, past tense and cusses), and the best choice by far was “SLATE.” I feel vindicated again, though I don’t yet know why “PLATE” is the current opener of choice for the bot.


  • Arrival

    Ben and Jenny are here; they arrived last night in time for dinner with Emmi, Kyle & Iris. We are currently, post-breakfast, working on logistics and infrastructure — we’re talking bikes here — and generally just hanging out. They are still working their way through a big pile of tasks and issues, but they’re here now.


  • General Life Update

    Meantime, what else has been going on?

    Well, Ben and Jenny are on their way East. They are relocating to somewhere near us, and have spent the last month preparing for the move, basically getting their affairs in order and saying their goodbyes. They don’t really have much to bring with them (everything they own fits in their car), so they are taking a bit of a grand tour, sightseeing and visiting friends, and expect to arrive in the Philly area by March. They’ve been traumatized and their future is still somewhat up in the air, but I am starting to feel a bit less worried about them.

    They will probably not be staying with us as we originally thought, but we followed through on our emergency bathroom remodeling job anyway. There wasn’t that much that needed doing, just a new vanity light and a new coat of paint (and a new sink while we’re at it), but we let it all sit for years until the Ben and Jenny Emergency made us leap into action… Our contractor should in fact be done today or tomorrow.

    Yesterday was an Iris day, and I also visited my Mom.


  • Plot Twist

    The story of this year is already turning grim…

    Ben and Jennie live in Altadena. They called Tuesday night to say they had to evacuate, literally at a moment’s notice and with not much more than the clothes on their backs, to escape the Eaton fire — they (and their cat) got out safely, and were at her Mom’s house a few hours away.

    Wednesday afternoon they called to let us know that their home and all their possessions, and in fact their entire neighborhood, were just gone. Clothes, furniture, books and artwork, their bank and grocery store and favorite restaurant… They lived in an enclave of tiny little cottages, and were very close with their neighbors; I expect that community will now be scattered to the winds. This is just plain awful.

    They spent the last day or so at a friend’s cabin near Joshua Tree to escape the fire pollution, and are now staying at a big AirBnB with her extended family. I don’t know what their immediate plans are, but they said they’ll take a month or so to deal with whatever needs to be done, and then relocate to the East Coast. They’ll stay with us when they get here.


  • Remembering My Uncle Frank

    RIP Frank Barth III (1942-2023)

    I wrote this post in January of last year, but never published it. Some additions and light editing, and here it is:

    My Uncle Frank passed away a year ago last summer. I really couldn’t write much about it at the time, but here’s a post to at least mark and remember his passing.

    Frank was my mom’s younger brother, the middle of three; he was just a few years younger than my mom. Here are a few photos I have from my mom’s photo book. These were taken at a park in Brooklyn, maybe Prospect Park.

    I have another photo from before my time, what looks like a vacation photo of my Uncles Pat and Frank as teenagers:

    Pat and Frank, ca 1958

    Here are some of my own photos, taken many years ago (and years apart):

    The first was at my cousin Frank’s wedding circa 2003, and the second is when My uncle Frank an Aunt Pat visited my parents in maybe 2011 or so. This might have been the last time I’d seen either of them alive and in person: they lived in Florida, Aunt Pat had health issues and passed just at the start of COVID, and Uncle Frank followed her not all that long after.

    Uncle Frank and Aunt Pat had three kids (Patricia, Eileen and Frank), our families were about the same age and we spent a lot of our holidays together, but I hadn’t seen them in years; Uncle Frank’s funeral was a bittersweet reunion. Here we are together, my cousins, brothers and me at the post-funeral luncheon:

    family members posing
    Chris, me, Patricia, Kevin, Eileen and Frank


  • Procrastinating Already?!

    Happy New Year!

    Today will be the day I do my usual New Year things (hike, blog my greetings, etc). Yesterday was a day for the family: Emmi & Kyle came over with Iris, and we spent the day hanging out, Zooming with Ben & Jenny in LA, cooking and eating (including our New Year’s pork & sauerkraut), and opening up yet more presents. It was a long but very pleasant day.

    This is what I wrote just about five years ago, it kind of sums up how I feel right now: I’m glad to turn the page, but I’m not sure things will be getting better anytime soon. As always, we shall see.